CityGirl a/k/a FlirtyGirl
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Well...I talked to one of the guys last night. So many things that he said set off warning bells in my head. For instance, he said that he had bought a tool box for the back of his truck from a guy at work that needed money for $35.00. Later on in his story he claimed he paid $40.00 for it.
He said that he paid $8,000 down for one of his daughter's cars and that she had made 2 of the other 6 payments. The other daughter he said he gave his 4 year old truck to that only had 5,000 miles on it. Later on in the conversation he claimed when one of his daughters was 17 that her boyfriend wrecked her car twice, which in the next breath he amdned to wrecked her car once and blew the motor up once and both vehicles were totaled. To which I replied, "well, I sure wouldn't have helped her get another vehicle" (he claims she is now 21), and his response "Oh, I didn't. Believe me" - WTH - he already told me he helped both of them!!
He droned on and on for at least 10 minutes about his ex-wife, when he says they have been divorced over 7 years. He said they broke up because of all the lies she told him. He told me he never lies. I told him that all people lie, sometimes people lie in order to not hurt other people's feelings, but that everybody lies and he reluctantly agreed. But insisted he was as honest as they come and that he hated lies, that it was the sole reason for the demise of his marriage. Oh, and her inability to pay bills in a timely fashion (he had no idea what she did "with all that money." (so apparently, he claims he was married 24 years, but the breakup in the marriage was through no fault of his at all)
He also told me when his daughter was dating the boyfriend that blew up/wrecked the cars, who he claimed "was pure evil" that no one would tell him where the guy lived, nor would anyone tell him where the guys parents lived or worked. I asked why on earth he would want to know where the guys parents worked he told me that he would have followed them home from work and eventually they would have led him to the boyfriend. I told him I thought that was creepy. His response was that As parents, even I would do anything for my children. My response to him was that, I would do ALMOST anything for my children.
So, then he wanted to know where I worked. I wouldn't tell him. I told him what he'd told me sounded like he was a bit of a stalker, I told him that "I was just being honest." He denied being a stalker ever. Then he went on to tell me he had stalker charges filed against him in California from a woman he was dating, or "thought he was dating." He said all the charges were from him returning her phone calls just as she requested and then showing the police "see, there he is calling again" but that he was here the whole time and she was in california. (of course, I don't think that would cause stalking charges - wouldn't that be harrassment?)
Then he wanted to take me to dinner tonight. I told him I already had plans (which is true. I plan on eating dinner with my daughter and watching a movie at home).
Jeez! I cannot tell you how many red flags this guy set off. And besides which, he talked SO FLIPPING MUCH, that I really didn't say much of anything (which is probably a good thing). I don't honestly think I want to date anyone that talks quite that much about themselves, but also contradicts themselves a few sentences later, and then denies they did it.
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I'm surprised he admitted to the stalking charges. As though every guy once in his life is charged with stalking and nothing to be concerned about. 
I don't think you can run away from that guy fast enough.
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CityGirl a/k/a FlirtyGirl
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Oh, I forgot my FAVORITE part!!!! At the end of his monologue, he said "So, are there any questions you want to ask that you don't want to know the answer to?" And I said "What do you mean?" And he repeated himself and then said, "Oh, you know." I said "I think you worded that rather strange, but no, I don't think I have any questions."
IS THAT NOT BIZARRE!!! It is like he was saying, WHAT DO YOU WANT ME TO LIE TO YOU ABOUT? And I didn't hear him wrong because he said it twice!!!!
OMG!!!
At least I didn't waste time going to meet him. I did waste 30 minutes on the phone when I could have been doing something else, but it sure did save me time and effort in the long run!!!!
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CityGirl a/k/a FlirtyGirl
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Well, I know someone who knows this guy, so I asked her about him. She told me that his wife left him because he joined a swingers group and wanted her to join in and she wanted no part of it!!! Also, she told me that HE was the one blowing money, not the wife, that he is making all of that up!!!
[running away and ducking for cover - thank heavens the guy has no clue what I look like! ]
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i don't even know what to say other than - you are meeting the strangest men citygirl and heart on 
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