Totally disgusting message!

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I got a message from my stbx's g/f last nite and OMG!
It was absolutely gross!
I forwarded it to my atty and told her she better let the Judge know about this, cuz for one thing, it was bizzaro!!!

I don't contact these people at all and after the messages from his g/f's daughter and my stbx admitting that they stalk my page, I put it on Private.

I went back thru and made sure to block them all too last night.

But anyways, the message said that my stbx wants me to stick a "sex toy" up his backside one more time before the divorce and I could call JAG to get info!!!!! HUH?!!!
It wasn't quite as nice as I put it here!!!

I'm assuming she meant that he feels he's getting screwed so I might as well take it all now?
I don't know!
I did message her back and just told her that

" I'm glad my child will never again be subject to the Morally corrupt standards that you and my stbx obviously live by"

Then I made a complaint to MySpace, but I'm sure they see far worse!!!
But I also did, and I know most of you will tell me I shouldn't have, but I sent a copy of her letter and my statement to my stbx's sister!!!
She's a Christian stay at home mom w/4 kids and goes to church EVERY sunday.

Oh well, I told you guys that I always get a kick out of these people!!!
Kind of gave my weekend a good start cuz everytime I think about it, I can't help but chuckle!!!
I wonder what she was thinking when she wrote that?!!!
Plus it was sooo random!!

CityGirl a/k/a FlirtyGirl

Sounds like a nut job to me! In some bizarre way, she probably things she is sticking up for her new BF! ROTFLMAO!!!

Guest

Sounds like maybe she was drunk. You should have told her to bring you the toy and a couple pairs of rubber gloves and you'd be more than happy to compy. Shocked

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I probaby would have told her "Isn't that your job now?"[/quote]

LOL!! My friend and I were just saying that I should've said that!!!

CityGirl a/k/a FlirtyGirl

Yep, great minds think alike!

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Well, she responded back to me and this time said my son was saying things about me!!! Again, I'm not going to repeat verbatim what she said!!

So, I said F**k it and called the Biatch!!
She actually answered the phone and I told her I was reading her new message and what the hell is wrong with her?!!!

Well we ended up having a sort of decent conversation, she was telling me stuff that was told to her by my stbx and I basically countered everything with the statement, "Again, there you go believing his words without doing the research!!! If my boyfriend was accused of abusing his children, I wouldn't just take his word for it, I would be asking around and checking out his criminal record and such!!!"

Then she even told me that my stbx told her that he bought our house even before we met!!!!
I was like, "Are you that dumb?!!" Do the math!!! How old is our child? and when you and he refinanced and he added your name to my house, didn't you see the original purchase date?!!!!
And then I told her that no matter what the two of them think, I have all rights to the equity he took out of my house and his pension.

Then she tried to say that she told him to settle up long time ago with me!!! I fired back with, "if that's true why did you refi and allow him to put your name on the house? And why did you both decide to foreclose and have your credit ruined?!!!"
Then she said that she never told him to put her name on anything!
I came back with "well then why did you sign a Power of Attorney allowing him to add your name to the house? I know you were incarcerated at the time and that's the purpose of the Power of Attorney, but why did you sign it?"
She even asked me to send a copy to her cuz she said she didn't know what I was talking about!!!
Then the kicker was, well, he's out of the military now and he lives here with me!!
But then five min. later, she contradicted herself and said they are no longer together!!! The house is all hers. but then she wanted me to send copies of what I have to her daughter's address!!!
I asked her under what chapter did he get discharged? She didn't know what I was talking about!! She said he just quit!!!!!
I then asked her did she know he was prior military and so was I? And that I know some of the regulations of getting discharged? And you can't just quit like a normal job!!!!!
But according to the DFAS site, he's still Active duty so that's another lie.

It was hilarious, cuz I kept asking her "how can you be so dumb?" and "how ignorant you are" and "so you just listen to any ass with a d*ck and beleive him huh?"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
She never once tried defending herself, I mean we weren't yelling at each other and I was saying it nicely, in a question form!!
Then she started asking me questions about what happened, like she was really starting to think about all that he had told her.

Then when we got into the topic of my child, I told her how could she not even question the validity of my child's accusations?
I told her that 3 different organizations believed her and actually did the research into our families' past and that doesn't she remember that my daughter spent the better part of 2007 in the psychiatric hospital?
I told her also that the final decision to terminate contact btwn my stbx and my child came from the courts because of the all the Doctor's recommendations and even my stbx's own therapist recommended it!!!!
She didn't know any of this!!!
Then she said "well, if I ever find out that those accusations are true, I will never speak to him again"!!!!!!!!!!!!
I then said, it's a little late isn't it? Since the courts know it's true and terminated contact back in 2007!!!!!!!
So, why are going to question it now!!!!!!! Again I told her that she is really naive and I felt sorry for her!!!

I even told her that I know she was upset that I got her criminal record but didn't she know it's on the website for the whole world to view? She didn't!!!!!!!
OMG!
I told her at the end, "I actually now feel sorry for you and our conversation has been enlightning because you may be older than me, but you are as naive as a 20 yr old!!!"
Just always remember that there is always two sides to a story.

Then I told her I would email her my settlement proposals and she can give them to my stbx "even though he doesn't live with you!!!"

Then she said bye and "Take Care"!!!!
I told her I think she needs to be the one to take care!!!!

Well, I now know that he really did dupe her and she's not just a plain old biatch out to take some one else's money!!!

CityGirl a/k/a FlirtyGirl

I don't know girl. That sounds more like a phishing expedition to me.

Guest

yea, I'm being wary! I'm not sending her anything, I just sent her a message with my proposals and a statement that everything I have, my stbx should have and if not, he can call the Clerks office to get it, it's all in our divorce file!!!

So, no, I'm not actually sending her anything and the fact that she wants me to send it elsewhere, tells me my stbx is still living with her!!!

I even asked her for his new address! I'll see if she responds to that one!! LOL

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She's "in love". I don't think anything you say will change how she thinks about him. She's obviously looking at things through rose coloured glasses.

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