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Guest · Posted: Sat Aug 15, 2009 3:31 pm Post subject: QDRO is DONE!!!!

Well, as you all may know, it has been almost 4 yrs fighting with this and so I decided enough is enough. I called the judge's office this morning and left the message that the part about my daughter getting the pension can go ahead and be omitted so we can get the pension moving. I'll just have to make sure that whoever takes care of my daughter should I pass, has the CS modified and I do have a life insurance policy naming my kids as beneficiaries, well my adult child is.
So I think it's good and the fight needs to end so I can start getting what he owes us!! LOL!!
the judge's secretary called me yesterday afternoon, the judge is ordering that the pension benefits continue to go to me even after the event of my ex's death!!!!!!!
And the judge signed it!!!

Oh, but in the event of my death, it all revert back to him.
But that's fine as he'll be ordered to pay more CS.
All I'm waiting for now is for the courts to send it over to the pension office!!!
WHOOOOOO HOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I spoke w/the pension office and it normally takes 30-60 days to process and I should get my first check!!!!!

There is a light at the end of the tunnel!!!!!