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CityGirl a/k/a FlirtyGirl · Posted: Tue Sep 08, 2009 8:35 am Post subject: OMG!!!

Well, I got a call from my ex this morning. "I still love you. I haven't been seeing anyone and I'd really like to see you. I know you'll probably say no, and I know that I did you wrong, but I would like to see you."

WTH!!!! I thought I was going to barf!!!

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MaritimeGuy · Joined: 25 Aug 2009 Posts: 31

I can't speak to your ex specifically as I don't know him but it sounds to me like, "I haven't been successful in getting any lately. How bout a a roll in the hay for old times sake."

CityGirl a/k/a FlirtyGirl · Posted: Tue Sep 08, 2009 11:20 am Post subject:

Well, it doesn't matter because he won't be getting any!!!
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MaritimeGuy · Joined: 25 Aug 2009 Posts: 31

Maybe you could send him a sexy hand puppet so he can help himself out. Laughing

CityGirl a/k/a FlirtyGirl · Posted: Wed Sep 09, 2009 10:10 am Post subject:

Well, that's an idea.
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MaritimeGuy · Joined: 25 Aug 2009 Posts: 31

Now if you were passive agreesive like me you'd make the puppet into a likeness of yourself. Wink

...and send it with a note, "Here's so you can remember what you gave up. Enjoy!"

CityGirl a/k/a FlirtyGirl · Posted: Tue Sep 15, 2009 9:27 am Post subject:

Got another phone call from him again this morning. He misses me, he wants to see me, he still loves me, he made a mistake 15 months ago (yes, it has been 15 months since he left) and he's been kicking himself ever since. His mom misses me, his son misses me.

Said he didn't blame me for not wanting to see him. LOL

He has got to quit calling me at work!! It gets me agitated. Oh, and he said "You don't have anything I want, I just want you." - WTH does that mean???? He decided he doesn't want my house, etc. now after those fights we had about me putting his name on the house??? hhhmmmm...

Oh, and he's driving by my house STILL because he saw my daughter's new car in the driveway. 15 months after he leaves, he is still driving by my house! WTH

I mean, I know I am awesome, adorable and irresistible, but COME ON!!!
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MaritimeGuy · Joined: 25 Aug 2009 Posts: 31

It's starting to sound kind of stalkerish (if that's a word). I think you're going to hit this guy over the head so to speak to make him see the light. Tell him not to call you at work for just the reasons you told us and that he shouldn't be stalking your house. Basically tell him not to call you...if you change your mind you'll call him. *click*

CityGirl a/k/a FlirtyGirl · Posted: Tue Sep 15, 2009 12:03 pm Post subject:

I may just have some police officer friends hang around my house and give him a talking to!!!! That might wake him up!
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CityGirl a/k/a FlirtyGirl · Posted: Wed Sep 16, 2009 3:49 pm Post subject:

UPDATE.....Well, he called several times today. I told him this morning that I would meet him for dinner on Saturday. Said he was looking forward to it, blah, blah blah. He wanted to meet Friday night, I told him I couldn’t Friday that I had plans, but I could Saturday.

Fast forward approximately 1 hour. I am away from my desk and he calls and leaves a message, with a rather hateful sounding voice, that said he had been thinking about it and he thought having dinner Saturday would not be a good idea, that I obviously had male friends and that since I had plans on Friday that obviously that guy meant more to me than he did and that we would not have quality personal time to spend together on Saturday and that he did not feel that would be enough time for us to talk about getting back together and for me not to bother calling him back (but I never talked to him about getting back together, I only said I would have dinner with him….and, apparently, he is irritated that I have a life and I have male friends). WTH!!! It is like a completely different person than the one I talked to about an hour ago.

Apparently for the last 15 months I was supposed to be eating my heart out over him (I did that for several months), THEN on top of that, I'm supposed to drop everything in my life the minute I hear from him and run to do exactly what he wants me to do!!!

SCREW THAT!!!

Unfortunately, he is calling me at work. We don't have caller ID. I can't just not answer the phone. But, belive me, the next time he calls, I am going to tell him I never want to hear from him again and for him not to call me, then I will calmly HANG UP!!!!

GGGRRRR

I think he is psycho or something!!!

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